malacca date

hey guys.
its been long since i ever blogged; been busy and lazy to log on to this page.

Today is the 3rd day i am in malacca as i was here to meet one of my cyber date, D. He is not what i expected, neither good nor bad. But all i can see for the past 2 nights is that this fella is quite domesticated. 28 years old with a cosy small hse and a honda to drive around plus a stable job. Successfull and domesticated - just the way i like it. Despite all that he still miss of something that i am looking for, the SPARK and i guess i need him to be more romantic. Its comfortable being with him and i think i do feel secure. lets just cross our fingers and see how it goes as the distance between us kinda irks me. both of us have not pop the question yet so will leave it to faith again.

Let the game begin!

dangers of chem

I recently got to know a guy K, a gorgeous guys in his late 30s but look like in his mid 20s. He have a fit body with a nice built chest and well developed abs. I was attracted by him. We chatted and flirted with each other and soon we end up in bed and also soon enough I found out that he is not that ‘perfect’ at all - he is into chem.
Despite that I was still clouded by his sexiness and we had sex on Friday and Saturday none stop and I was surprise I was able to keep up with him. Having sex with a guy who is under the influence of ‘ice’ and perpetually inhaling ‘poppers’ was way out of the world. The way he response to my touches and were as though my fingers can emit low electric current and all I know that his body shudders a lot and the moaning was very stimulating. All I know that he kept commenting on how good I am and kept on calling out my name.
It got me really horny at a point and I decided to try something I wanted to do long time ago. I tied him up against the wall blindfolded. I teased him for a good 30 minutes and I can see he is at the edge of his senses where he began to ask me to fuck him which I didn’t until I know he can’t stand it any longer. We went into all sorts of position we could think of and while he was on top of me, he kept on moaning and gasping for air- he cummed without realising it.
How do I rate this sex experience? 10 out of 10 of course.
On Monday I called him and I can hear that he is not doing well, he told me he lost his job and failed his interview which he told me that he would have aced it without any problem. He can’t think and can’t remember stuff any more and all he could think of is having another dose of ‘ice’ every single hour. He said he was addicted and he know he is heading deeper and deeper into the abyss. He made a decision that no one can help him but himself that he threw all his drugs away. I was reminded by him again and again that never be curious to try such thing or else I will end up like him in a pleading voice. I had a feeling that he is close to tears already and my heart broke into a million pieces as I was listening to this conversation.
What I couldn’t understand is that why a person like him - good looking, sexy, perfectly chiselled body, have a job and car but got stuck in the grasp of what seem harmless at first but in the end a disaster - chem or what all of know fondly, drugs.
I wish you all the best in stopping this habit K!

massage

I was really feeling lousy yesterday as my whole body was totally drained. Then i my gut keeps on telling me - go for a massage. But the problem is i haven been to one before :S
After what seems like an eternity, i have gathered enough courage and walked into a massage palour which only for guys *wink wink*
anyway before your mind starts spinning with your wildest imagination, have to stop you; nothing happened except that i have an hour massage which costs me rm50. Overall it was ok. not too bad and not something to be bragged about in the future to my friends but the main point is that it helped me loosen up alot. :)

made a mental note yesterday before i sleep that i shall pamper myself for spas and massage every month. I worked hard so therefore i need to be pampered - i am a leo *wink*

scariest night

If you were thinking that i am going to tell you guys that i have encounter some black specter that just vanish in a corner then you are wrong. OR, if you think i have been robbed by a gang of mat rempits then you are wrong too.

Let me tell you whats the scare the shit out of me on yesterday night was that i have a migraine attack. let me continue and elaborate, i have a migraine attack at 1am and soon found out that i have no medicine left in my hse, how was that? scary right? no medicine and plus i am staying alone. i ransacked my hse and later i found a some panadol activ fast. without hesitation i swallowed all 8 capsules and went to bed. Thank god that i manage to sleep the pain through.

thank god thank god thank god!

If you are different.....things to ponder

THIS IS NOT A LIST-THE-NEGATIVITY EXERCISE AND THERE ARE A NUMBER OF COUNTER-EXAMPLES BUT THEY ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN. I FIGURED A FAIR NUMBER OF PEOPLE READ MY JOURNAL AND IT MIGHT BE A GOOD PLACE TO RAISE AWARENESS ABOUT HOW MUCH HATE THERE IS OUT THERE. THIS IS NOT SO MUCH ABOUT SCREWED-UP GENDER ROLES BUT BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS.

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

Something i have forgotten

Sometimes when we are so tied down in chasing all those expectations that were set upon us by other people we know; regardless whether they play any important role in our life that makes us to forget how we use to laugh till be cringe on the floor holding our stomach with tears flooding in our eyes; or how we use to enjoy catching tadpoles in a puddle during a raining season; sleepover with friends where we stuffed ourselves with food and later in tears watching some love story or even just take a walk at a quiet playground, kicking some stones on the way and just lay down on a slide and watch the ever changing clouds up above. I haven't done all this since i was 15.

Yet, the recent trip i went made me feel what life is all about again. It is no longer meeting up with deadlines, worrying how people think about me, bills, guys and flirts and many more. That one day trip in Cherating was just about me and my life; Not just work and love but all those simple and minor stuff in between that makes life life which i have not pay much attention on, so much so i have almost forget about.

I had a good long walk along the seaside and occasionally picking up seashells which i find rather odd and nice. Memories flooded me; good ones which makes me ocassionally smilling towards the sea and some sad ones which i stare at my feet...leaving footprints behind - its the past but the mark is still there and i hope like those footprints on the warm sand will soon dissappear, washed by the gentle waves.

I got the chance in catching up with my sleep as i slept all the way from KL to Cherating and later on the beach which i found something i like a lot - a hammock. For a long time since i actually hear the wind whispering playfully where they have been, the sun warms my soul which gives me goosebumps and the waves tickling my feet, awakening my senses. This is life. And

now i have made a mental note to get out the hectic life i am going through and escaped back to mother nature's embrace so that she for one day can make me feel safe, warm and no longer living a mechanical life. Just once a month i will make this effort to go back to her so that i know i am breathing and most important, I am at peace.

A good hike :)

Went for a hike with 2 of my friends in FRIMM last saturday. Have missed that place since i last went there 3 years ago when I organised a camp. One thing i must realise is the fact i have been lazy and not been exercising much and therefore the hike really put a toll on me, but compare to my other 2 friends, I don't look too bad :P

Think that God have been really mercifull to us as when we arrived to the hiking site, we could see the sky getting darker and darker as the minute pass and not for long thunder and lightning came along. My friend were dissapointed as we drove all the way there ( he came from ipoh), however we all agree that we give it a try. My friend brought an umbrella along with him leaving me and my other friend dumbfounded. I made a mental note as to not talk to him or show any sign that i know him if there is by chance any strangers bump into us along the hike. Who on earth brings an umbrella while hiking in a forest?! And back to the part where God have been nice to us; it never rain through our 2 hours hike till we went into our car :P

It was a good Saturday. Never had one where i can relax my mind fully for a very long time.

becoming a game to fate.

Something struck my head and got me to think all of the sudden. I am now sitting in my office while the rain drops kamikaze themselves into the thick glass windows, a couple walk pass in a where the guy protectively hugging the girl and shielding her from the torrent while leaving himself wet. Both of them were giggling and the only thin you can see in them is just pure happiness. I wished i was the girl.

Friends asked me all the time,
"why are you still single?"
and normally they will receive the same answer from me over and over again;
"no one wants."

The fact is that not that no one wants me but what i am looking for out there are hard to come by. I want someone that i can grow old with and when i am with him, i am not afraid of anything. i look ok and above average and though i do now have chest and abs to show off but i am confident enough to stroll topless in the open. But many fails to understands me; what i need is love and not sex ( not that i am complaining that i dun like sex)

Manny times while i am starbucks dating with my lap top i would eye at happy couples that sits nearby or walk pass me hungrily. I want to have a life like them. I use to have a life like them but i guess i was young at that time and do not know how to appreciate it. Now i know....

If i could have one more chance, i would hold on to it and never let go......please, i just want to share my life with someone and to have my world with more colours- not just black and white.

Be original

I was reading another person's blog the other day and i find this rather amusing. Its a blog that belong to a person that i use to like.

I remember the time when I was head over heels for him - endless nights where we would chat on the phone talking what we have done throughout the day and practically how we missed each other. At times, he would suprise me bu saying he wrote a song for me and would either sing it or plays the piano for me. Of course there is an exchange of love poem and all. that moment was a memory and sometimes now when I digs out this memory or suddenly it resurface from the deep depth, i would see how silly i was. By the way, we never made it to become a couple.

Now when I saw the few new posts about his newly found bf, i laughed and was shocked and also felt cheated. Mostly felt CHEATED.

He use to tell me, that he only have inspiration to write songs for me; love songs. i was really touched at that time and till now i remember most of the lyrics. Guess what? his new Bf have a few songs too....and mostly it is being modified from the songs that he has wrote for me. Just some changes of a few words from bit here and there. All those lovey dovey saying of how much he loves me are practically repeated to his BF now.

worse....

I wrote him a love letter and I posted it to him. He stole what I wrote to him and rewrite it to his BF in a different manner, but with a first glance, it is obvious that the content is from me. i kind of confronted him and he told me don't know what i mean and he dont care. What kind of shitty attitude is this? I would rather him admitting and i would make a laugh out of it rather than he lying. I despise people who lie. Whats more is that he can't even be original to confess or express his love to his BF.

I have this thought now that if i were to dig out more of his past, i would nt be suprise if i finds out that all those quotes and songs that he have written ar stolen from somewhere.

Sometimes i feel, if you are not good with fancy poetic words yourself, don't steal it from others. You are not telling me how you feel towards me. You are borrowing other people's emotion to use it to represent yours. In the end, it is not your emotion i feel but others. If you can't be flowery in writting or verbally then don't. a simple I LOVE YOU would do cause I or the person you are saying too will feel the sincerity of those 3 powerfull words rather than something that is innitally not from you.

LOVE comes from the heart and not from the works of others.

Another episode

New Year have arrived and i know that i haven been blogging - i have my reasons, i dun blog much and then there's lot that have happened in the past few month.

However, this year promises a better year and better luck too. Chinese New Year was boring and to an extend i dun feel the festive sensation. All i can remember was that getting in and out of a car that was so hot and stuffy till i somehow feel strongly i can bake a cake with. But th Ang Paos is good - despite the downfall of the economy, my ang paos were good. :) However, i dont feel it is worth it due to the hassle of visiting all the aunties and uncles and some relatives i never remembered i had.

Then Valentine. This year was a blast. There were no romantic dinners and all, but we went out for just a simple movie and dinner at manhattan fish market and thats all. But at night in my room was simply........how can i put this,....orgasmic? haha. thanks for the valentine William.

i also got a new job now, i teach, and i have less working hours and better pay ^^ a kind of job that many dreams off. I guess my luck are finally catching up and at last those bad luck is lossing their breathe. Keeping my fingers crossed here and hoping that everything will only get better^^

cheers

silas being busy

How have you guys been?
Been really busy here as i have started working already (two months) hence, the reason why i am not blogging and going on the internet (and meeting guys too- sorry folks)
work is tough as you need to meeet up with your boss' expectations and all. politics - yes the exist in my office and the very first day my colleagues are telling me who i am suppose to mix with and avoid. you perform 100% this month, the boss expect you to give in 150% results next month and 200% the following month. corporates now a days they just squeeze dry you until the very last drop and yet they fail to realise that the staffs are the most important assets an organization have. kill mthe staffs and you kill your own bussiness.

Trying hard to get out of this rat race as i see that i have an issue of getting up early, stuck in the morning jam, work 8 hours - rotting and dying at my desk, stuck in the jam again and the crash on my bed every monday to saturday. (and i can imagine what will i become if this is going to continue for the rest of my life. )

seriously, i think the gov should improves the traffic control and the public transports. dont you think so?

Miss me?

ALO!
i have been missing for a very long time haha....life have been boring and therefore there is nothing to write about to let you guys read.
Anyway i have just graduated and went for a job interview last week and then the boss called and they have accepted me :P sumary: end of holiday and a life time being a slave.

Recently i have a met a guy and he is darn good kisser. i was with him the whole night, hugging and kissing and feel like i am in cloud nine but the biggest problem is that:
1) he is good looking-----> not a loyal bf material, no sense of security

ai...anyway i have been meeting up with him with movies and all. In another person (gay person) perspective it is quite obvious we are couple. We were happy but in the end i think i am the one that is going to be hurt. ok, got to go....yes...going put with him later for a movie...aoks *finger crossed*

i am back

ok i am back! think its been long i posted anything here. how is life everyone? mine? sucks.....haha...
sigh suddenly the dilema of getting a bf and settle down with him orbits around me and its so darn hard to get one - i know i am picky, but hey, if i am going to spend most of my time with him then i ought to choose properly.

i often as myself, should i look for someone i love or that to accept someone that loves me? hard eh. such a subjective question and i think til now i still have not gotten any answers. damn!

today went for a dinner in pyramid and gosh there is this gay coulpe that dine in front of table and because god is so unfair they are both hunks! i was drooling and thank good ness the food was tasty so my family were not suspicious haha. i man i want to end up like those two sitting infront of me. wonder when. cross fingers!

Need to workout

I was watching a show yesterday night and there is this Argentinien guy with a god damn gorgeous body, not to mustcular but have a nice lean and smooth body. i am so jealous! wonder how long would it take for me to be like him though. i burn fats as though i am breathing. losing weight is my forte. i have been trying to be lazy- eat sleep eat sleep routine but i have not even gained a gram. goodness! any advices?

dun get me wrong...is not that i am not happy with my body, i am lean but just that i know it could be so much better if my abs are more prominent and a nicer chest would definitely be nice to suit with all those clothes i want to buy. you dig? silas must work hard now!

Want and Need

I think i have to started opening my heart and scope to find a BF now. Not that i need one, just that i want one. See the difference? kapish?

Went for a gathering that day and there were like a total of 18 of us. Majority of them were couples, very sweet and very loving while there a few stray (which me is in it) who are miserably single and we have to laugh and smile at them and wishing at the same time - " Where the hell is my boy?!"

so,....any takers?

Silas is back

Been long since i came to update this page - reason - busy

What have happened during the duration of me being MIA? Chinese new year, working and flirting around haha.

Talk about work, hmm...there is this cute guy that work there (which i have not confirm whether he is gay or not - damn!) nice butt and sexy eyes :P work is tough but not as tough as keeping my eyes off him and worse he caught me looking at him a few times, and i think he looked at me too which i think its good.....right? Met a lot of new people and i say that working there is fun though once again...its tough! Now i am considering in sending my resume in after i graduate, which is in a few months time.

Now, college have started and its my first day today and it sucks! i have a row with my classmates due to some problems and now they are boycotting me - which i don't care. All i need to remind myself is that i am graduating soon and just get over with it, after all, true friends never do these sort of things to each other - agree?

New year have arrived and lets just cross all fingers and toes and hope that everything is for the greater good! so cliche hor?

CHINESE NEW YEAR

year of the rat has arrived atlast and it promises fortune but how come my ang pau so little?

anyway new year have been fun lots of cute guys are seen in my hometown. eye spa ^^

Shopping!

Went back to my hometown in subang ( now you know) to shop for chinese new year with my friends(they are all straights). Rather a disappointing experience cause after 5 hours of exhaustion of camping in different dressing rooms and patrolling between the old wing and the new wing of sunway pyramid i only manage to get 3 tops and one long pants. sigh....

Anyhow that day was a hole disaapointment. There is not a single cute guy shopping there. Where have they all gone!!!! Goodness...i haven been back for 5 weeks and the whole shopping mall already have a great stench on seafood. LALAS are everywhere. Its a pestilence! a plague!

Went to Quicksilver and everything i want they have no size. Went to Billabong and cant seem to find anything interesting.....goodness! even my cup of drink i ordered in starbucks tatse bad.

However the higlight of the day was the cute guy working in one of the shop. OMG he is damn cute! Tall....fair and super smooth skin (you can feel in by looking it and i kinda get a semi hard on just looking at him!) Even my girlfriends were all like going a few times to shop so to get a chance to be serve by him but all the other promoters were so eager to get the commisions that they were they at the front door to greet us. sigh....wat a disappointment to the gay guy and the straight girls. OH have i told you, he alerted my gaydar :P

someone is reading ^^

OMG....
checked my blog today and i found people reading it haha... really happy!
thanks guys!

may the gayness of the world be with you!

Gave up. I can't believe it!

Well i have an exam this mmoning at 9. Suppose to have but i missed it. Not that i woke upo late or wat but i made a choice to not go. why? - simple NEVER STUDY!
Now i feel so miserable! wat to do wat to do.....

GOD pls make the college offer the paper next semester so i can resit. T_T

note: this is my first time skipping a paper....